2012. Where did the year go? The holidays are upon us and we are barreling headfirst into 2013! As you put the brakes on and stop to take a look at 2012, make a list of things you want to do next year, but most importantly, make a list of things you DON'T want to do again, ever. A lot of things that happen to us happen because we enable or allow these things to happen. So what do we have to do?. Change the action. Change the profile.